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Arlene Pellicane asked:




When it comes to Valentine’s Day, the spotlight is often on women. Just look at the advertisements. Chocolate truffles, diamond tennis bracelets and floral arrangements abound. Not exactly what men want on February 14th. So what does your husband want on Valentine’s Day?

When I asked mine he answered with a smile, “That’s a stupid question.” In other words, I should already know the answer. Men are not hard to figure out like women. They want to make love on Valentine’s Day in a memorable way. They don’t ask for anything you have to save money for or go into debt over. They just want to have great *** with their wives and who can blame them?

So here are a few ideas to get your special gift ready for Valentine’s Day:

1. Be creative. Brainstorm about different locations in your house for *** that would work, or maybe surprise your husband with one night’s stay at a local hotel. Think of different ways to create mood using candles, music, massages, lotions, scents or foods. For example, you can let those chocolate kisses live up to their name and eat chocolate together when lovemaking.

2. Be aggressive. A man dreams of being pursued by his lover. He longs to feel wanted and needed. Your husband doesn’t want to have *** with a lifeless victim. Be aggressive and take charge in the bedroom. Your husband won’t mind following your lead one bit.

3. Be a planner. Put your love rendezvous on the calendar. Write your husband a note inviting him to a night of great ***. Write the time and date on the bathroom mirror with lipstick. Create a sense of anticipation and plan for a special night of intimacy together.

4. Be attractive. If you were going out to dinner with your girlfriends, you would put on makeup and do your best to look attractive. Give the same care and attention to your appearance before you make love to your husband. When you look your best, you will feel sexier and your husband will be reminded of the beauty he married.

Put the spotlight on the man you love this Valentine’s Day. Don’t worry about what you will receive; instead focus on what you can give. In so doing, you’ll have one of the best Valentine’s Days ever!

Today’s Action Step: What will you do this Valentine’s Day to make your husband feel special?

Gabriel Aragon asked:




One of the most common reasons why men fail to attract women is they are trying too hard. Trying too hard to get noticed, trying too hard to give them what they want, and men are just simply trying too hard to please women.

I am going to let you into a little secret of mine on how I can grab any woman’s attention. Actually, it is not a secret. Everybody knows about this but since men have been trying too hard, they have neglected to take notice of this common fact.

“Women are used to dismissing men.” It is second nature to them. That is what they do, dismiss men. So here is my secret, “Learn to dismiss women!”. When you learn to dismiss them in a good way, it will turn their whole world around! Believe me, this works like magic. It does not matter how subtle you dismiss them but as long as you do, the only thing they will remember is that you did, and it will turn their whole world around. This is the best way to get their attention and not only that, this is also the easiest way to make a woman want you!

You should learn to do that with a little bit of art. Here is an example on how you can do that:

You should be willing to walk away. No matter how gorgeous she is or whatever level of conversation you are having with her, most especially if she is in to you, end it and walk away. Tell her you just saw a friend and would want to say hi or you have to call somebody. Find a way to mingle with other people in the place but be sure that she sees you where ever you go. That would make her start to think what just happened. Lots of questions will start to play inside her head. Keep her wondering why you suddenly left. Then before you go out of the bar, approach her again and give her your number. If she says that she does not call guys, tell her that you are interested with her, she is a nice lady and would have probably given out her number to guys who ask for it just to be nice but then would spend the next two days trying to avoid phone calls. You tell her that you simply just do not want to be one of those guys she is trying to avoid. So when you are done with the conversation she can either throw away your number or she can call you if she is interested.

Now, do you realize how powerful this is? You are making her realize that you are different from the other guys. By being different, you stand out. Learn to dismiss women and you are on your way to being the guy who women can not forget, the guy they would take a second look, the guy who turned their worlds around. And that is the best way to get a woman’s attention,don’t you think?